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Wednesday, June 16, 2010

The love myth

Someone just sent me an SMS which reads-

True love never lives happily ever after. True love has no ending…

I guess, that’s so true. Our life is not as in fairytales…which every relationship will endow with bliss for the rest of a lifetime. So unfortunate in reality, it is never gonna be that easy. As time goes by, the relationship will continuosly be facing a lot of challenges. Where we can find some of them are very unreasonable and totally unexpected.

A picture of handsome, heroic, elusive perfect man who dramatically fall in love with you, who will do anything to ensure there’s nothing in this world could make you feel upset, who would always adore you no matter what, who will always be by your side whenever you need him- is deadly poisonous myth believe. This idea we get from fairytales, romance novels and movies etc. will eventually lead us to frustration if we expect the same thing to happen in real life.

This kind of unrealistic expectation are the biggest disruption in any relationship -as Dr. Love says.
So, hoping our partner will do the same in real life, just isn’t constructive. Let’s face it - no such man exist! Not only no such man exist, but we ourselves will never be perfect too. Quality relationships need both parties to have desire and effort to make it work. Together nurturing with full of love, passionate, good communication, trustworthy and anything to keep the lights on forever.

I know “They both lived happily together ever after” is impossible postscript in life. But for me, I just need a lot less traumatic relationship…


10/26/09

2 comments:

  1. A picture of handsome, heroic, elusive perfect man who dramatically fall in love with you, who will do anything to ensure there’s nothing in this world could make you feel upset, who would always adore you no matter what, who will always be by your side whenever you need him- is deadly poisonous myth believe.

    kalau hansem sgt pun susah, nanti menyampah haahha ada kenal org yang mang hansem gilerr la tp menyampah gilerr.. semua pompan sebok nak mengendengg kat dia.. mang la dia hansem kan. kalau hati dia kata kita pun still rasa menyampah sebab ramai sgt pompan tergiler2 kat dia sebab hansem.. so the best is tak yah la hansem sgt wakakak nanti buat sakit ati je

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  2. btol gak tu...kalo ensem sgt, nnti asek makan ati je.
    kalo boleh, biar kita lagi attractive dari dia. kan kan?
    :D

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